Ok so I don't know what it but EVERYTHING has been bothering me lately. Maybe it's from the stress of school, or me not really knowing what i'm doing in my life. But I find myself in situations where other people just really ANNOY me.
so warning this is just me venting at the very moment because something small just happened that isn't the biggest deal in the world. But when that small thing keeps happening over and over and over again, and then person doing it to you is completely oblivious to it... or even worse, thinks their actions are totally justifiable. It just get irritating.
I'm taking a conflict resolution class right now, that i find very interesting by the way. AND it talks a lot about we find things irritating and say it's the person, when in fact it's not the person, it's their behavior, and behaviors are learnt and can be changed depending on the environment and circumstances.
But seriously in this case it's definitely the PERSON, and if it's not the person, then it's every behavior about them that irritates me.
so I'll admit that I do need to calm down a bit (this is why i'm writing this post so that when i see that person I don't freak out at them) but the only thing i want to do it call them out on everything they've done.
I'm trying to make this super general because it is a public blog. buuut I don't think i can really take anymore of this. I know that you have to extra patient with people especially when you live in a house with 4 other girls. There are ALWAYS people coming over, which is great, keeps life fun right? But I just can't handle when people don't respect things that are mine. Sure come over and hang out with my roommates, But know when you go over to other peoples houses you are guest there!!! don't act like you own the place, DON"T think everything is there for your benefit, it seriously drives me crazy when people feel entitled to things that aren't theirs. ESPECIALLY when it's mine!!!!
SO please when you come over to my house respect my things, don't take things without asking... and then I don't have to be the crazy roommates that locks everything up for fear that people will take it.
Ok i think i'm almost calmed down... although this did also get me a lil more riled up.... oh boy.... Good thing my Parents are coming into town this weekend and I plan on spending little to no time with anyone else!!!